Dear Users,
Jeewansangam provides a platform to find your matrimony partner/ candidate by facilitating you to be introduced to them at the initial stage and providing tools that allow you to communicate with them with privacy. Our website ensures that each profile created on the site has all of the information filled out. However, it depends on you as to how you search suitable profiles, verify them by making most use of all the services this platform has to offer.
It is necessary for you to exercise some simple precautions for a safe and secure experience. Although we are trying provide you that genuine profiles bu still we are limited to actions that are within our control in ensuring your safety.
So please read on for some tips that can help you to assess genuineness of a profile.
Some tips for assessing genuineness of a matrimonial profile.
Using Social Media may be a new concept for some of the alliances but they are very nice online platforms that provide a personal and professional piece of information of any particular individuals. Once you are in touch with a candidate you can get details of their social media (Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn etc) account names (aslo it is advisavble to do it under the guidance of your parent). Once you know the account names you can check out personal and professional attributes of the alliance and match them against the details defined on Jeewansangam.com or that they have shared with you.
On the social media platforms you can also try to find common friends or common distant relatives which can be referred for premarital verification.
1. Start Online Conversation.
Once the profiles are mutually accepted, both the parties can access the personal contact information of each other. You can start initial communication by email or live chat instead of arranging personal or phone meeting. You can ask to share personal and professional biodata, horoscope, etc. By getting this information you will be able to judge the genuineness of the alliance with respect to the profile that is created on Jeewansangam.com. Chatting will further help you to know about the culture, nature, personal characteristics, emotional status, family values, ambitions, partner choices, personal views on marriage etc.
2. Educational & Professional background Verification.
Always verify the educational background of an alliance, you can also try to ask few questions related to his education or profession to verify the genuineness. You can even ask for some documentory proof to ensure the genuineness of the information given.
3. Family Background Verifiation.
It is an important aspect before forming an alliance, as it a foundation which decides the future of your realtionship. To ensure the susscess of your relation and to avoid any misguiding information you can seek verification from any of your elderly family member, common friend and by any other means which may not hinder ones reputation.
4. Residential Information verification.
If the alliance is residing in the neighbouring or not so far city/ state then you can send any of your family members/relative to verify the authenticity. You can even ask any of the distant relatives or family friends to find out about the alliance, his/her family details, their lifestyle, etc.
5. Personal Meeting
Once you get to know about the nature, style, likings, preferences and verification of some of the above details, it is now the time to start talking on the phone call. It is advisable to arrange a personal meeting along with the family members of both the parties to better understand their preferences, views and expectations. The communication and social skills will help you to understand the genuineness to the entire family. Once the first meeting has gone off well then you can can spend some time alone with the other person to share your views and ideas with your partner.
6. Emotional Status of the Alliance
Pre-marital affairs are very important part of verification before proceding forward. You need to verify pre-marital affairs and emotional status of the alliance. These days, lots of alliances are involved in love-affairs but fail to unite with each other but due to famiy pressure they agreed to engage in relationships proposed by family and often, it is very hard to discard the affair and become free from emotional attachment. In such cases, you can sit together with the alliance, ex-partner and their family members to check out the current status of the past affair.
7. Seek Astral guidance or Kundali Milan.
In our culture seeing astral guidance or kundali milan palys a major role while searcing for the bride or groom and gives a lot of stress to match alliances astrologically. Astrology is altogether a science which gives you an idea about personal attributes of an alliance so to support your understanding about an alliance it is advisable to exchange the kundali for matchmaking purpose. It gives few important information about the facts of past and predictions of future which helps alliances to form a proper match. However, astrology does not give any guarantee of successful marriage.
8. You may hire an Investigation Agency.
Seeking help from an investigation agency to check the genuineness of any profile may give you little awkward feeling. But this is very common practice in high profile matrimony candidates through which the families seeks to gather the little information about the alliance. Relatives are cross verified, neighbors are questioned discretely about the habits, character, financial standing, physical fitness and past record of any alliance.
9.Watch out for money scams.
There are just too many con artists and scam artists around the world, and they are everywhere. We, Jeewansangam never ask for money and If you get a message proposing any schemes or request for money by our name or by any individual profile, please write to us and let us know along with e-mail of such messages/ demands.
Always trust your instincts and by using your own good judgment is your best way to move ahead with the right person. Ultimately you are responsible for your personal experience.
If you do have an unpleasant experience with any members we request you to report it to relevant authorities immediately and us as soon as possible.